Three weeks ago, I taught a lesson to 3 teenage girls and 3 teenage boys who need to learn more about communicating effectively with peers. The one lesson that I hope will stick and that I continue to reinforce is to "be a builder." That means instead of cutting your peers down with sarcaism or demeaning remarks, you should build them up with a positive comment and praise for things they do well.
So BE A BUILDER TODAY and praise someone on their accomplishments!!
Tuesday, May 1, 2007
"Be a Builder"
Posted by Stephanie & Brad Bishop at 2:56 PM
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Well done, Steph! That's a really valuable lesson to learn at any age. I would also say that it's pretty important to apply the same kindness to yourself. I've been working on being kinder to me in my thoughts and while I'm not perfect at it, it has helped immensely! So...way to go Steph!! (Hee hee, there's my praise for the day...but I really am being sincere!)
Being kinder to self is where it all starts, however, it is sometimes sooooo hard. For me, right now, I am really beating my "mothering" tactics up! It REALLY IS the hardest profession!
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